tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2192186541955038172.post2105294245485966345..comments2024-03-26T04:43:26.948-07:00Comments on The Business/Judo of Life: Bad People are Bad People, Whether They Do Martial Arts or NotDr. AnnMariahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13741371839260099343noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2192186541955038172.post-34540230432060387042013-08-15T02:00:13.891-07:002013-08-15T02:00:13.891-07:00I'm afraid Ronda is proving your point regular...I'm afraid Ronda is proving your point regularly in her tweets. Despite of learning good things from judo all her life (respect, mutual benefit etc.) most of the time her comments are disrespectful and insecure. She's swearing, speaking bad about people around her and all in all being a bad role model for young judoka. She has phenomenal skills and I'd like to be a fan but I just can't. I guess if you end up fighting a lot with people when you're not wearing your gloves or judogi, martial arts were not good for you in the first place. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2192186541955038172.post-69625797663490538062013-06-24T18:53:50.281-07:002013-06-24T18:53:50.281-07:00Unfortunately, I'm not very good at that sensi...Unfortunately, I'm not very good at that sensing someone is a bad person. They day they passed out women's intuition I think I must have been home sick with the measles. I have friends, though, who seem to have that spidey-sense. They will meet someone and say for no apparent reason, "Stay away from that guy, he's bad news" and they invariably turn out to be right.Dr. AnnMariahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13741371839260099343noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2192186541955038172.post-50767698843918934002013-06-24T06:14:01.277-07:002013-06-24T06:14:01.277-07:00I agree with this. Get away from any bad people an...I agree with this. Get away from any bad people and never fall for their games. Some bad people are "professional victims" who will make you feel like guilty for trying to get away from them. They'll attempt to manipulate you into thinking that you're misjudging them or that you're being "brainwashed" by the people who are trying to help you break free of them or they'll try to remind you of the "things they've done for you" etc. Don't listen! As Phil Hine writes in Condensed Chaos<br /><br /><br />"All too often, we may experience this inner 'warning' and dismiss it, as there may be no logical or rational reason that will uphold the 'scent' of danger. In my own experience I have found that ignoring the pricklings of my danger sense is a mistake. This can apply not only to situations, but to people...If you have a sudden perception that someone you have just met is going to be 'trouble' it can be very difficult to act on that basis, when there is no explanation to support it, but I have always found that it is a mistake not to. The danger-sense often has an element of prescience to it - the danger may not be immediately present - but it's out there waiting. If you pay attention to your danger-sense and learn to trust it, then you will find that at times it expands, becoming an aura of expectation - a foreshadowing, that something is about to happen .... Don't try to explain it or force it to be there, just listen to it." - Phil Hine, from Condensed Chaos (p. 57) Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com